Everyone in your reality is a divine messenger they willingly said, ‘I will hold up a mirror for you to observe the reflection it is reflecting back to you about you’ Most persons mirror is a distortion attaching to an emotion to a thought that they themselves are harbouring. Wounded persons always make it about a person, a person’s character, and personality, and very few persons make it about words and word thought patterns that they are in turn projecting within themselves, they will always blame the other person for their issues or internal mess of which has not been attended too.
The reality is the more destructive a person speaks of another the more will be projected back to the person about their destructive emotional thought process, until they observe the reflection of their thoughts. Any destructive thought emotional words a person incites is within them, for the person to even be able to interpret the wounding or the observed patterns in the first place.
STOP ALWAYS before you say or do WHAT IS THIS PERSON REFLECTING TO ME ABOUT ME.