Are you complete or looking for someone to complete you
Most are looking for love and focusing upon finding someone to complete them when completeness can only come from within.
The completeness in any relationship is being complete first, and then having someone who will ENHANCE your COMPLETENESS.
This is the environment which expansion creates more and will be an arena of bouncing more ideas and creating together.
‘Why do we form relationships that become discorded’
Relationships which are discorded is the asking for an improved condition, and for those in these relationship conditions see the contrast and will have strong asking for a solution, they will have a strong asking for improvement, and the more they ask for improvement and believe in a solution the solution will come, it is all into what is being asked, and how you feel in the asking.
‘How do you find the right relationship’
Relationships are the process to discover what you really want in a relationship, every relationship is the building platform which you discover what you want in a relationship which you place into your vibration of what you really desire for you, it is building into the imagination of what you really do want, you identify you really like this in that person, you really like that in that person, and you bring these about into a vibration and this is felt by us, and we work on delivering the person you have created, but if you look at what you don’t like in that person, or this person you will build up the very person that you do not want.
‘Then why do the humans always get the same’
When you focus upon what you do not like, you perpetuate that thought and that thought will become the dominate thought and this thought will be delivered to you, it is to change the thoughts to what you really do want only, and we mean only, If you were to look at that person who is looking for a better relationship, and consistently says I don’t want to meet a heavy drinker, they will meet a heavy drinker, because the ‘I don’t want’ is the dominate thought pattern.
‘What do you term as a perfect relationship’
Every relationship is perfect, the perfection is perfect when the identifying relationship makes the strong discovery of what they really want for them to have, or to become. How can you know or tell what you want if you have something of which you do not want?
This is the balancing act of deciphering the wanted and the unwanted.
‘How do you define love in a relationship’
The love word is such a convoluted word and comes in many differing emotions. Many say they love you, but it comes under what umbrella they have put up, it is the underlining emotion behind the word.
A word that is used to express can have many emotional meanings, if you take the word ‘F***’ can be expressed in a villainous way or can be expressed in an overwhelming incredible observation.
A word is only a word, the word only becomes more by what expressive emotion was extruded from the word.
Back to love in a relationship, most are looking for love and focusing upon finding someone to complete them, when completeness can only come from within. The completeness in any relationship is being complete and then having someone who will enhance your completeness, this is the environment which expansion creates more, and will be an arena of bouncing more ideas and creating together.
‘Why do so many relationships not last’
When relationships who come together through loneliness, desperation, not sure what they want, or choosing someone because there was no other choice, or any connectedness through a disconnected mind thought, normally will find discontent, or the two parties come together in distortedness and may be happy residing in that place and make excuses it is just the way it is or made my bed and have to lie in it.
All of these scenarios are looking for love in all the wrong places.
The coming together may have been a joyous occasion, these spontaneous new beginnings are the focusing point for when some discontent occurs within relationships, those moments are there to rekindle the feeling place of how good it was when they were aligned and in the feeling of love and appreciation, but instead they rather focus upon the negative aspect that the relationship is leading too and build upon that.
This fleeting joyous newness in any relationship can become powerful in creating momentum of creating. Then they decide to live together and discover traits that did not sit well for them, these traits tend to become a negative thought, and then capitulate into an emotional response. These traits would be ignored by a tuned in human form who would look to the wonderful qualities that this relationship is.
The response to any relationship is how you are being within the relationship, it is what is dominate in your focus of thought, you have to weigh up is it important, do I need to add any more thought to this. If you are focusing on negative thoughts it is to look at the positive aspects of the person.
Every person that comes to you is you asking for clarification to a topic or a thought you are holding onto.
Every person is a teacher, they are there for you to open your eyes to look at it in new eyes, and in a new thought.
All that you come across is a reflection of how you are feeling. To make this discovery is to test the theory or to discover it for yourself, as words do not teach, only experiences shows you what, and how you are doing or experiencing.
If you start your day in an angry tone, then you will come across angry people, you will see angry situations, or be a part of them.
If you start your day frustrated then you will come across frustrated people, not only frustrated people but frustrating occurrences, things will be in your way, your timing is out to get to places.
If you start your day happy then you will come across happy people, and happy interaction in all that you do, and your timing is right, and things just unfold beautifully.
In effect every person and every situation are reflecting what you are outputting or telling the universe how you are feeling, and if you carry on that feeling the universe will deliver more to what you are outputting. Everything is attraction, the more you see and do will be delivered to you upon what you are outputting.
Identify your mood, this mood will tell you what you are receiving, it is as simple as a mood, you couldn’t get a better barometer than the mood barometer.
This mood barometer can be changed as quick as you can change your thoughts. Do you want more of what you are thinking, this is either in the positive or the negative mood, then keep on thinking it, the more you think it the more it becomes, be observant to what you are thinking, because it is those thoughts which have enough momentum behind them creates enough vibrational energies to that momentum which is felt by the universal energies, and we give you more of it.
This powerful vibrational energy exists, it is you feeling the emotions which is the indicator to what you are thinking and feeling. It is to put absolute faith and knowing that you are not only human but the greater part of you is the energy stream, you cannot see it, but you can feel it.
They as in collective consciousness are always finding ways to communicate, be open and trust.
Taking a breather on a seat gathering my breath while walking up a hill, and thinking about this person I was to maybe form a relationship with, a black crow kept on flying around me, my first thought was an omen, but being of pureness I disregarded this thought, this was the first time I have ever encountered a black crow on my walk which places relevance onto the situation, the next day we went to a beach for the day, and out of the blue two black crows came down and stayed with us, and all I could think was is this a good sign or bad. Then out of the blue my parents turned up for the week, and then a few other small things that curtailed us meeting up again, these are all the signs the universe is saying NO! Then I received in thought a song ‘True colours that’s why I love you’ I decided to end this relationship well as you can gather his true colours came into being. The moral of the story is, always trust your first intuitive thought, and take notice of the signs.